Been Over A Year.
One of the most detrimental relationships I have ever been witness too has come to an end. It really sucks because I faild to see all the signs to correct it.
I unwillingly or in her eyes willingly caused us to plunder into a world of bitterness and pointless bickering.
I was too serious when she was only joking. Or I was joking too much and she was being too serious. Which ever way it was, I think it was hard for either of us to see each others perspectives on what it was about.
Now, I will tell the world about it. Maybe it will help somebody, maybe it will help myself.
It really does not matter who is right or wrong. What matters is that you find that special language of love between both parties and be willing to communicate openly about what is. Being one sided will lead to the self destruction of any relationship.
Maybe she seen me as one sided? It seems that I seen her as one sided. That was because I failed to understand what her language of love she was speaking.
She was so giving but not in a emotional way. It was the small things that ment the most to her. The things I seen but just didnt know how to respond too in a way she would relate too. If we only would of had the ability to recognise it all as it was our means of communication. Perhaps we could of developed a long and enduring relationship that would stand the test of time.
Standing the test of time means dealing with the good and the bad of each other. When you make that commitment to one person, you honor it and hold yourself too it. You should never let it go no matter what the consquence.
Maybe that is old fasion?
Maybe it is just being too sensitive to everything.
Does it really matter in the grand scemem of life? Life is short, why fight to know somebody then learn who they are then. Decide that you dont want to know them anymore. Especially a mate that you should pair yourself for life with.
The incompatibilities should be only obsticals to overcome. That's what life is about isnt it? Overcomeing obsticals and commitment to what you believe in?
Maybe it is only mine? Maybe it is your's?
I have no idea. But I can atest that it is mine.
I unwillingly or in her eyes willingly caused us to plunder into a world of bitterness and pointless bickering.
I was too serious when she was only joking. Or I was joking too much and she was being too serious. Which ever way it was, I think it was hard for either of us to see each others perspectives on what it was about.
Now, I will tell the world about it. Maybe it will help somebody, maybe it will help myself.
It really does not matter who is right or wrong. What matters is that you find that special language of love between both parties and be willing to communicate openly about what is. Being one sided will lead to the self destruction of any relationship.
Maybe she seen me as one sided? It seems that I seen her as one sided. That was because I failed to understand what her language of love she was speaking.
She was so giving but not in a emotional way. It was the small things that ment the most to her. The things I seen but just didnt know how to respond too in a way she would relate too. If we only would of had the ability to recognise it all as it was our means of communication. Perhaps we could of developed a long and enduring relationship that would stand the test of time.
Standing the test of time means dealing with the good and the bad of each other. When you make that commitment to one person, you honor it and hold yourself too it. You should never let it go no matter what the consquence.
Maybe that is old fasion?
Maybe it is just being too sensitive to everything.
Does it really matter in the grand scemem of life? Life is short, why fight to know somebody then learn who they are then. Decide that you dont want to know them anymore. Especially a mate that you should pair yourself for life with.
The incompatibilities should be only obsticals to overcome. That's what life is about isnt it? Overcomeing obsticals and commitment to what you believe in?
Maybe it is only mine? Maybe it is your's?
I have no idea. But I can atest that it is mine.
2 Comments:
get over it and get a life.
Michael, you dont even know me. And Im glad I dont know you. People are not disposable. It's kind of a jackass thing to say. Go through what we went through and let some jerk u dont even know say something stupid like that to you. How about you just get a life.
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