Calm Tom & Babbeling Brook
Who are these people?
Well calm Tom is a normal guy that does not really say much. babbling Brook is a open and very expressive person that can just talk and talk and talk about anything openly when she feels comfortable with a calm Tom.
calm Tom and babbling Brook meet one day and find that they connect very well. Babbling Brook can just talk and talk and calm Tom enjoys how smart and full of information babbling Brook is. Babbling Brook feels like she has found such a great person because calm Tom listens so intently seeing all the situations she has been through in life and enjoys how open she is with him about it all.
One day 3 years later, calm Tom wakes up and realises that babbling Brook knows nothing about calm Tom because everything has been about her and all she talked about was about her. Feeling like there is no way to communicate or understand how to express calm Tom's self. He feels trapped and finds that he likes nothing about babbling Brook. I mean all she does is talk and talk and talk.
If calm Tom would only see that babbling Brook's way of communicating is verbally and not through silence by means of small jesters much like calm Tom does. The communication between them would be more understood for the both of them.
See, it is a 2 sided coin. Both Tom and Brook need to realize that the language of love they are both speaking is not the same. Doesn't it sound logical for the both of them now to try to make an effort to learn how to communicate with each other in the special way they express them selves? Tom could make an effort to speak more freely and openly and Brook could learn to listen to Tom instead of making every conversation related to her.
Long story short.
Try to understand how your other half is communicating to you. Either they say nothing or they say everything. Saying nothing does not mean they are not saying anything at all. And saying everything does not mean they are not concerned about you.
It is just the many different ways we communicate with one another.
Well calm Tom is a normal guy that does not really say much. babbling Brook is a open and very expressive person that can just talk and talk and talk about anything openly when she feels comfortable with a calm Tom.
calm Tom and babbling Brook meet one day and find that they connect very well. Babbling Brook can just talk and talk and calm Tom enjoys how smart and full of information babbling Brook is. Babbling Brook feels like she has found such a great person because calm Tom listens so intently seeing all the situations she has been through in life and enjoys how open she is with him about it all.
One day 3 years later, calm Tom wakes up and realises that babbling Brook knows nothing about calm Tom because everything has been about her and all she talked about was about her. Feeling like there is no way to communicate or understand how to express calm Tom's self. He feels trapped and finds that he likes nothing about babbling Brook. I mean all she does is talk and talk and talk.
If calm Tom would only see that babbling Brook's way of communicating is verbally and not through silence by means of small jesters much like calm Tom does. The communication between them would be more understood for the both of them.
See, it is a 2 sided coin. Both Tom and Brook need to realize that the language of love they are both speaking is not the same. Doesn't it sound logical for the both of them now to try to make an effort to learn how to communicate with each other in the special way they express them selves? Tom could make an effort to speak more freely and openly and Brook could learn to listen to Tom instead of making every conversation related to her.
Long story short.
Try to understand how your other half is communicating to you. Either they say nothing or they say everything. Saying nothing does not mean they are not saying anything at all. And saying everything does not mean they are not concerned about you.
It is just the many different ways we communicate with one another.
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